What are your plans for after the wedding? Aside from the honeymoon, of course! You probably haven’t thought about it, but you and your groom-to-be will need to thank every guest personally for their gifts at some point. Tijan Biner shares all the tips and tricks you need to know about how to say thank you most stylishly and practically.
Gift-giving is a part of wedding celebrations. It is polite to thank your guests personally after the excitement of the wedding has subsided. This includes their gifts, attendance, and support. Western Australia Bride has all the information you need on how to write a thank-you note.
The timing is everything.
You may think that your guests have plenty of time to prepare their wedding gifts. However, you will be working on a different timeline when it comes time to thank them. You should send a note of thanks to guests who have given gifts before the wedding. For those who gave gifts on the day, you will have two months to express your gratitude. Make a copy of your guest list and add two columns: one for the gifts and another for the thank-you notes. You can then record the gifts that you have received and the dates when they were sent. This will also make it easier to remember all the mailing addresses.
Take it Personal
It is not important to follow any rules when writing a personal thank-you note. Please formally address guests (e.g., Address guests formally (e.g.
Cash Gift
You don’t need to mention the amount if you have received a large sum of money, but it’s nice to tell them what you plan to do with the cash. Most newlyweds will use any extra money they receive to renovate their home or go on their honeymoon. So, explaining what the gift is going towards can be a nice personal touch.
Registry Gift
Mention that you will both use the gift regularly. Please explain how you have been wanting a particular appliance for a long time and how excited you are to use it in the kitchen.
Charitable Donation
You can let guests know that you value their donations and the charity they support by asking them to donate instead of bringing a gift.
Bridal Party
It is important to thank everyone who was involved in your wedding. A simple letter will do. A beautiful gesture is to let your bridesmaids or groomsmen understand how much you appreciate all they have done for you and your partner. You’ll know that you’re grateful, but a thank-you note is even more meaningful.
Vendors
A handwritten note is sure to warm the heart of a florist or makeup artist who did an amazing job on your wedding day.
Written Or Printed?
Is the written thank-you note becoming a thing of the past? After the wedding, you may feel tempted to send an email or a text message to your guests but don’t. From weddings to baby showers to job interviews, you need to write a thank-you note. Whether it is for your grandmother or just an acquaintance, the pen on paper will make a lasting impact. It’s stylish to send a small card with your initials on it. Be sure to use black or blue ink, and make sure that your handwriting and address are clear and neat.
You can also hire a stationery business to make personalized envelopes and cards for you. All you have to do is complete the blanks. You can still write your own words on your post-wedding cards if you choose to have a stationery company create them.
Proper Etiquette
When it’s time to send out your wedding notes, there are some things you should keep in mind. If you plan to send out notes before your wedding, it’s best to order two sets of stationery or use your first names.
Even if a guest did not bring a gift to the wedding, it is still advisable to send them a note of thanks. Even if a guest is not able to get a gift with them, their presence at the wedding should be acknowledged. If someone has traveled long distances or made a contribution to the wedding, like giving a speech or cleaning up afterward, you should thank them.
Even if you received the gift from the same person, write separate thank-you notes for every wedding event. This includes the bridal shower and engagement. A thank-you note is a good way to confirm that you have received gifts or well wishes after the wedding.
It is important to thank everyone who has helped you celebrate this special day and for their generosity. No matter how big or small the gift is, if someone went out of their way to help on your wedding day, even if it was without a present, you should thank them.
